Does the quote "Where there's a will, there's always a way" hold good always????

"If it can be dreamed, it can be done."

"Don't just dream it, be it."


These quotations all seem to mean the same thing - if we want to do something, go out and do it, letting nothing stop us. No one said it would be easy, but when life's difficulty meter is cranked to the max and we're living with limitations (or there are built-in limitations to what we plan to do), reaching your goals may seem impossible for us. It's not like we live in a fairy-tale world where everything is perfect and things always seem to work out in the end, and we shouldn't go through life pretending that we do. Just because some people become successful doesn't mean that everyone can succeed, whether it's through their own shortcomings or no fault of their own.

We all have things we want to do in life, but as they say, "We plan, God laughs." Or in non-religious terms, "We plan, the universe remains cold." or rightly said by some people "Man proposes, God disposes." This is so because the world we live in will continue to exist whether any of us live in it or not. None of us is really needed, but that's okay since we create our own meaning in our lives and have those we care about. If we didn't have each other, we'd have nothing. Still, just because we assign meaning to our lives doesn't mean that everything will go as planned or even in that general direction. Is there a will? Yes, there most certainly is. Is there always a way? No, unfortunately there is not. Nothing in life is guaranteed, least of all your plans remaining more or less intact. Even if you have decided on a reason or several reasons for living, our plans may fall through and we may lose some of those reasons. We must all find our happiness somewhere and hope that it is never taken away from us by some cruel twist of fate, for when it is we are truly at a loss that cannot be soon overcome.

It isn't always healthy to look on the bright side of a situation, even if that advice is well-meaning. Being blindly optimistic can sometimes make us blind to the consequences of the harsh realities we must deal with every day; as much as we want to ignore them, we just can't because it isn't safe to do so. Therefore, another meaning of this declaration might be seen as : Don't give up. There may not always be a way, but there will be other pursuits. If we keep trying, we're bound to succeed at something eventually even if it isn't what we originally intended.

Friends.....

People today, in all this new world technology and thinking, have lost sight of what true friendship is. So, I thought I would write little about FRIENDS


1. Friends don't have to be exactly the same. Friends have similarities but they also have their differences. They key to opening up the world of friendship is not only to expand on similarities but to accept each other's faults. Because you can't ever judge your friend.

2. Friends have to argue! No one likes to but it is necessary to be healthy. Cause if you agree on everything, either the government has expanded cloning subjects or someone isn't being true and is trying a little too hard.

3. You have to be comfortable together or else you just aren't going to click. If you feel edgy around the person then something isn't quite right.

4. Friends love unconditionally. They have there little angry moments but what's done is done and its forgive and forget policy that lasts in friendship... Why let something that happened in the past ruin what happiness you could have in the future?


These are only a few of the basics. Just remember, friends are forever. But only if you keep it that way. Don't diss your buds, love them instead. And when they drive you nuts, love them that much more for being just a little bit different and may be a little bit quirky!!!!